SUGAR MOMAS (Let men "be" MEN)

There are some women we like to call "Sugar Momas" who for some reason want to take care of an able bodied man. Some say it's control while others say it's low self esteem. I say it's both! However, it's not good to judge. For whatever are these women's reasons for taking care of men is really NOT the subject of this post. I would rather focus on the so called men who will allow a woman to take care of them financially. I say so-called men because a real man would not allow a woman to care financially for him. He would appreciate her efforts; but will recognize that a woman such as this needs a REAL MAN and will care for himself "and" her as well. These days real men are hard to come by. We are living in a time where these guys would rather have a second mother and just sit back to have time to play around with their friends. For the life of me, I cannot see how these women can leave him home in bed while she's leaving for work. When she arrives home there are dishes in the sink, clothes on the floor and a smell so foul that it needs the city sewerage maintenance department to contain it. The smell is him. He's so comfortable that he will not even get up off his lazy behind to clean it. However, when he's leaving with his boys, he has to get so fresh and so clean! There is no way in the world, I would never ever allow this from a man and I say this with certainity because I would rather die or be alone than to put up with this. A man should be a MAN! Men are meant to be the head of their households in every aspect; not just an bed warmer. If he is not physically or mentally disabled then what is his excuse? Has it gotten so bad out here that we women must allow this type of behavior; I think not?. I truly believe if women would just allow men to be real men then this type of behavior would cease to exist. I become physically sick when I see men who are just hanging around the house and nothing is wrong with them. I truly believe a man and woman should both bring substance to an relationship. They are both to work together to maintain their homes. One should not be out working while the other is enjoying the perks (money, house, car, vacation, shopping sprees, dining, and utilities). WOMEN, DESPERATE LONELY WOMEN, I beg of you to please stop this madness. It's not that serious!!!

~Pfp (Let men be MEN)