REAL TALK....ONE

To love is Nothing......
To be loved is Something.....

To love and be loved is Everything......

Men call me ignorant and mean because I do not put up with their BS. I even had one on Facebook to go as far as to ask me about my single status or should I say, he said "I was mean because I am pretty and did not have a man." So let me clear this crap up, "I mean what I say!" I have zero tolerance for lying and cheating. I put "Love" in it's proper place and that's with me. As far as with the male species this is how I view "Love"; Either you are "only" with me or you are against me. I have been married for 11 years and I do not put up with his BS. I require a man to be an MAN because I am an WOMAN. I am not a little girl toy to be played with. I take my relationships seriously and when I love, I love hard. When I find myself loving him more than he loves me, he has to go; because I am going to do me. This hitting on me like I am your punching bag is definitely not allowed because you will find yourself like the others: cut up, stabbed, possibly shot, near dead or with a well whooped a**. If I whooped your a**, then I treated you like the B**ch, you came at me with. Learn your manners, It's not cool to hit a woman, keep your hands to yourself! Now as for the lying......very big pet peeve. If you are cheating, be a man about it, let your girl know. You will leave me the choice if I want to stay or go. If not, I am gone anyway. I do not believe in fighting over a man or this thing we all call "love." Love doesn't require for me to deal with BS, lying, cheating nor abuse. It requires for me to be loved in return, at peace, love my man 110% and give him the home and wife he deserves.

I am done with the war of "THE THIN LINE BETWEEN LOVE AND HATE". As for my sisters still out in the trenches, I will pray for you. You are good, strong and beautiful women. Know your worth. ~Paedams

Dealing with ignorant men makes me evil. I am too old for this sh**! I have spent most of my precious life dealing with men and their BS; now, all I want is peace and to be a Christian. Men mess with my Christainity. It's hard to stay on the straight and narrow path without looking to my left nor my right, dealing with the BS of men. I am focused on looking forward and not back! I love my family; this is my parents, sister, children and grandchildren. After God they all come first. When the right Christian man comes along he will receive my best which is an gentle, loving, compliant wife. Until then..................... FLUCK OFF! GAMMIT!

2011. PFP

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