It has been long made aware that men abuse women; but what about the men that suffer through abuse from women. I am against Domestic Violence period. It is not acceptable behavior for either male or female to abuse their spouses. If you find yourself abusing those that love you then you need to be alone. Society finds it hard to be symphatetic to a man when he is being physically abused by his woman because many feel that women cannot do much damage. WRONG! Most see him as being weak for allowing this type of behavior and blame him for being battered. Domestic Violence is not any one's fault other than the one's committing it. Women are just as deadly as men if given the right tools. Although men suffer from Domestic Violence, statistics shows that women are 90% victimized. In comparison this a large difference from the 10% of men being victimized. Studies also show that in this 10% of men that the women were merely defending themselves during an domestic altercation whereas studies done from Emergency Room statistics are for 90% of women being battered. According to 1991 figures from the FBI, 71% of women are murdered by their spouses. The other percentage is she got him before he could get her. The cold hard facts is women who are abusers do nothing more than slap, kick, slightly punch and bite; only 1% of them kill their spouses. Death to anyone is tragic and all the cold blooded murderers need to be punished. However, I would say for the women who were protecting themselves and their children, these murders were justified. I know women are capable of murder, our prison systems validate this; but to what degree or circumstance. Most of the women locked up today are there because they murdered their abusive spouses and this is wrong. Unless, you have been a victim to Domestic Violence, you are not aware of the fear associated with leaving these men. Most women who do escape, only to have momentary freedom because their abusers will find and kill them as punishment for them leaving. It's kill or be killed. I find it unfair that most men who are screaming they are victims are actually the abusers. It is very seldom a real male victim of domestic abuse would come forth and use this type of media forum such as Facebook and other social outlets looking for pity. 
As for the Facebook cry babies, they are merely trying to set up an smoke screen because their acts of cowardness are finally being regulated and are no longer seen as matters of family privacy anymore. They need validation to their reigns of tyranny. They hide behind the masks of Pastor, Musician, Community Leaders and Politicians. Their victims will not divulge their cruel, oppressive and violent natures due to fear not only of him but of the people that follow them. These men use the private and sensitive nature of their crimes to silence their victims with blind fear of retribution. Yet, they use Facebook and other medias to exploit the less than 5% of men that are actually abused by women. They use these men as pedestals to in which to stand and make an mockery of an growing epidemic throughout the world in which they have created. Women are fighting back in record numbers simply because they fear for their lives and justice has not served them well. For the poor men that are victims, I feel you deserve just as much help as the women do and all victims need to take a stand against these domestic bullies. The resources are out there and if handled with much care you can once again live productive lives free of your abusers. Begin here and now by calling 1-800-799-SAFE. The more these bullies are exposed and imprisoned the less harm and death they will cause. Facebook cry babies, no one is listening! STOP, using a system set up to protect your victims. Your time is at hand and your end is near. Please read this article depicting the profile of an male Domestic Abuser: http://sweetmocha-monroe.hubpages.com/hub/WALK-AWAY-FROM-DOMESTIC-VIOLENCE
As for the Facebook cry babies, they are merely trying to set up an smoke screen because their acts of cowardness are finally being regulated and are no longer seen as matters of family privacy anymore. They need validation to their reigns of tyranny. They hide behind the masks of Pastor, Musician, Community Leaders and Politicians. Their victims will not divulge their cruel, oppressive and violent natures due to fear not only of him but of the people that follow them. These men use the private and sensitive nature of their crimes to silence their victims with blind fear of retribution. Yet, they use Facebook and other medias to exploit the less than 5% of men that are actually abused by women. They use these men as pedestals to in which to stand and make an mockery of an growing epidemic throughout the world in which they have created. Women are fighting back in record numbers simply because they fear for their lives and justice has not served them well. For the poor men that are victims, I feel you deserve just as much help as the women do and all victims need to take a stand against these domestic bullies. The resources are out there and if handled with much care you can once again live productive lives free of your abusers. Begin here and now by calling 1-800-799-SAFE. The more these bullies are exposed and imprisoned the less harm and death they will cause. Facebook cry babies, no one is listening! STOP, using a system set up to protect your victims. Your time is at hand and your end is near. Please read this article depicting the profile of an male Domestic Abuser: http://sweetmocha-monroe.hubpages.com/hub/WALK-AWAY-FROM-DOMESTIC-VIOLENCE
This a must read for unsuspecting victims being caught in the stare of abusers.
God Bless
Copyright 2011. PFP
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